I don't recommend my "way," since everyone has to tune this to their own tastes and needs. And I'm afraid my habits aren't those I'd choose, except others don't work. Never any sweetener of any kind. I take my sweets selectively a different way, in solid treats, peanut clusters in dark chocolate right now. And I take very little 2% milk, enough to soften the acidic taste and buffer my stomach somewhat. It lightens the coffee slightly, but only slightly. Not very coffee saavy, but ingestible for me. Cream and half-and-half, though acceptable at a coffee shop, are too cloying and mask the coffee somewhat. Don't use powdered "creamer" of any kind. I'll drink it black instead. I had no idea how fussy I am until I wrote this down. I learn something on every post, even my own.