The T matches the 1943 Birmingham hallmark though. I will add more photos thanks for the info
No, it doesn't. In 1943, to the extent that anyone was making sterling mounted pipes in the middle of a World War, the "T" was a straight serifed shape, which yours is not. The "T" on yours is not serifed and is slightly angled, so, 1993.
Also, in 1943, Barling did its own silver work, to the extent that it did any, and all of it has London assay office marks. It wasn't until well after the closing of the Barling factories in 1970, that its successor entities used silver work that was assayed in Birmingham.
Then there's the TVF stamp visible in the image that you uploaded. Barling didn't start using the TVF stamping until after the war, most likely 1947, so again, not 1943.
Let's see the logo stamp