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ssjones

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I don't often share personal events on the forum but this week, my family went through a lot. But, we stuck together and came out the other side today. If your loved ones are nearby, give them hug and tell them you love them.
A month ago, my mother-in-law entered the hospital and after a rough couple of weeks, passed last Thursday. We buried her today. Her spirit really impacted my wife and made her the woman she is today. We saw lot of her and she'll be missed. The funeral which was today and we're now back home, I'm enjoying some MM965 and reflecting a bit.
We pulled a lot of old pictures, this one made me smile. My wife and I getting ready for her Senior prom, in 1979. My '69 Charger behind us.
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On top of that sadness, on Satuday, in the middle of preparations, my oldest daughter called screaming. Their 2 year old Great Dane, Steele,had just been hit by a car and they were rushing him to a veternary hospital. Sadly, he didn't make it. We took his body to their cabin, up in the WV mountains to bury him in a meadow. That was one of the toughest things I've ever had to do. That dog was like their child, it went to my son-in-laws shop with him every day. I'll really miss this big goofus.
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The only upside was my youngest came home from New Orleans and she was a comfort to us. We don't see her often enough and I'm taking her to the airport later this evening.
We did squeeze in a couple of family photos, trying to lighten it up a bit.
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We were all feeling pretty sorry for ourselves Saturday evening. My 97 year old father (lucky to still have him!) brought us some perspective when he said "I'm sad for passed dogs, but I mourn people". Overall, my family has been very blessed and we're grateful for that.
Give you loved ones a hug if they are close by!

 

bobpnm

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You are a rich man to be blessed with such a beautiful family! Loss of loved ones is tough. Time does not lessen the sense of loss. Time, faith and the love of that beautiful family will help bring bring peace and perspective. May you and your family find that peace. Take the time.

 

lucky695

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my condolences Jones. It is a hard and personal thing to share. I will say a little prayer for comfort for your family.

 
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mothernaturewilleatusallforbreakfast

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Sorry to hear about the tough week, you have my condolences. Death is difficult for the living. Even though I know that my dog will die sometime in the near future I dread even the thought of her not being around. Now... my mother-in-law on the other hand. Well, she's a nice woman and all, but my dog is my dog... she brings real joy to my life, something I can't say of most people. I'll be sad when my mother-in-law dies, but will mourn the loss of my dog.

 

voorhees

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May 30, 2012
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My condolences Al. I hate to hear of any cherished loved ones passing.
However, your future is looking bright as a new baby is on the way!

 

scrooge

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So Sorry for your losses Al, Will say a little prayer for you an yours. Keep your chin up your Mrs needs you more then ever.

 

cortezattic

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You have my condolences, Al. What you wrote evokes some recent memories, and I can still feel the pain.

I've stopped trying to make sense of it, and just accept things as they come. Hopefully the good things in life

will outweigh the sadness you are now going through. Thanks for posting.

 

cobguy

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Oct 18, 2013
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So sorry to hear this, Al. Best wishes and my condolences to you and your family.

 

ssjones

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Thanks guys, I guess I was feeling a little sorry for myself earlier. Its nothing different than many of you have gone thru here, said or unsaid. It sure does make you realize and appreciate the blessings you do have, not everyone gets that in their lives.

 

georged

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Mar 7, 2013
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t sure does make you realize and appreciate the blessings you do have, not everyone gets that in their lives.
Indeed. Put another way, the pain you feel after losing someone (including significant pets) is the Universe's way of reminding you how lucky you were for a while.
Sorry for your losses, Al. Be strong. Cultivate your memories of those people in your heart, like a garden. Visit it often.

 

Chasing Embers

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Hard times in life bring families closer. My condolences, and possible congratulations? Is that a baby belly I see, Grampa?

 
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