All natural tobacco is acidic. Someone had posted the actual numbers a year or so ago, and the difference between a Virginia and Burley is just a few numbers (like 7 to 9 for example). But, also keep in mind that the difference between nitric acid and lemonade is just a few numbers as well. Acids of similar acidity can also affect different material, such as nitric which can melt metals and hydrochloric which can burn skin. However, as Phred pointed out there is a difference between bite and burn, and most just getting into the hobby cannot (do not) differentiate well.
Steam is the biggest threat. If you reduce the steam, you reduce both bite and burn, as hot acid is more dangerous than cold acid on any material.
My favorite drink to have while smoking a tangy Virginia is Mountain Dew or a tangy fruit juice, but these do nothing positive for my pant size, ha ha. But, I also like to dry my Virginias out to crunchy, and I smoke very slow, no puffing and never smoke when I don't have the time. For me, slow plus dry means more flavor without any burn to the tongue.
Body chemistry comes up a lot. Maybe it is like when people start drinking beer, how they gag at first, ha ha. They have to develop their tongues. Because the more acidic Virginias are the more golden zesty tobaccos, whereas reds are due to the color cure of the leaf. There is no natural red Virginia plant. I know that some reds come from a smoky fire cure instead of the clean, dry flue cure, like the difference between the red color of pork barbecue verses roasting a pig in an electric oven. However, the industry is tight lipped about most of what it does. But, in the growing side of the hobby, we find people get that richer red flavor from smoke cure of the leaf, slowly with low heat or age curing, to get that red color and flavor. To me, the reds have a smoky barbecue like taste also, a fuller flavor. But, all in all, they come from similar (if not the exact same) plant, and the reds should have less acidity. So, maybe body allergies could come into play with the added smoke process. maybe it is the things added to the tobacco in the curing that they are affected by.
But, all in all, I think that steam and body chemistry affect the tongue more directly than the acidity. Some burley blends will strip my tongue fast also. But, there is also the acidity of the casings to take into consideration.