Well, it seems as if I am a poor student of the tamping process, as about 50% of the time I tamp the pipe, it goes out. I thought that is was mandatory to inhale while you are tamping...which I do, but that isn't always successful. I watch video's of guys that seem to exert firm pressure and stroke of their tamper, but if I exert even moderate pressure it seems to kill the ember. WTF am I doing wrong?