Don't worry overmuch about relights/keeping it lit - it's one of those skills that comes with practice. Lots and lots of practice... :D
Don't worry overmuch about whether other people like aromatics, either. Taste is highly subjective, and changes frequently. If it turns out that you don't like a particular aromatic (or any other blend), don't buy more of it and try something else. Any of the Frog Mortons, for example, will introduce you to Latakia - each of them is a different style:
1. Original - Virginia + Latakia
2. On the Town - Virginia + Latakia + Oriental
3. Across the Pond - Virginia + Syrian Latakia (as differentiated from Cyprian Latakia)
4. On the Bayou - Virginia + Latakia + Perique
5. Cellar - Virginia + Latakia, plus a cube of wood cut from a whiskey barrel to add flavor.
So far, I've only had the opportunity to try the Original, but I look forward to sampling the others soon...
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