Hey Guys,
So tonight I made the decision to tell my mother that I enjoy smoking the occasional pipe (I only manage one or two on a weekend because she did't know) but I just wanted to be open and honest.
She didn't take it too great as most people who don't understand do. Focusing on nicotine and breathing in smoke even if you don't inhale (which I don't)
She said it wasn't fair for me to smoke if she can't (she spent a few years on the nails). That seemed an unfair comment to me. It was only a very short convo as she makes up her mind quick and then there can be no reasoning.
There was no argument because even though she is quick to snap I always keep a very calm tone.
It was a move I had to make but I now feel a bit mixed up because she is a bit vulnerable at the mo with one thing and another and I really didn't want to upset her. We are quite close. But I didn't want her finding out another way. Obviously I don't think the amount I smoke needs to be any kind of issue but I can't control other peoples perception. So I feel quite low now and some advice and personal experience from my friends here would go a long way to make me feel better. Thank you
So tonight I made the decision to tell my mother that I enjoy smoking the occasional pipe (I only manage one or two on a weekend because she did't know) but I just wanted to be open and honest.
She didn't take it too great as most people who don't understand do. Focusing on nicotine and breathing in smoke even if you don't inhale (which I don't)
She said it wasn't fair for me to smoke if she can't (she spent a few years on the nails). That seemed an unfair comment to me. It was only a very short convo as she makes up her mind quick and then there can be no reasoning.
There was no argument because even though she is quick to snap I always keep a very calm tone.
It was a move I had to make but I now feel a bit mixed up because she is a bit vulnerable at the mo with one thing and another and I really didn't want to upset her. We are quite close. But I didn't want her finding out another way. Obviously I don't think the amount I smoke needs to be any kind of issue but I can't control other peoples perception. So I feel quite low now and some advice and personal experience from my friends here would go a long way to make me feel better. Thank you