Dunno. I have known a lot of women who were physically attractive, intelligent and also realistic. They tend to draw little attention to themselves however and avoid social activities like bars and clubs, preferring areas where they can contribute and be recognized for their competence. One of the most insightful things said to me on this topic was by a friend, "Women are human too, just female." He meant that most men create a mysticism around women as if they were unicorns or fairies, but really, they are sensible beings who just have a slightly different way of viewing the world.