My Family and wife's Cemetery is now located in a bad area, Gov housing is near and inhabinants walk the street looking for a score and someone to score on. We have 5 graves to put flowers, I ease a small pistol in my back pocket and help wife with flowers thinking how disgusting this is to be thinking about that as you pray for your people. I take pictures, sending them to my children, every year one has to foot the bill for the flowers, I can foot the bill, but they must know how they got here, no free ride, really I'm training them for when my wife and I are gone. You don't have to have flowers, go see your departed ones. :crying: