- Feb 21, 2013
If she accumulates some things, like clothes or books, etc., she can probably come around to understanding the situation. Also, you need to observe if she is very spare in all material acquisitions. Then the question is, does she expect you to be the same? Some people want absolute austerity in their lives and expect the same from others. I suspect you can work it out with no problem. Your pipe collection might eventually be quite pleasing to her.